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The Mullah & the Paradise

June 3rd, 2011, posted in Allama Iqbal, ChARACtERs, Ink On PAPER, PAKiSTAN, Scarface'S DIARY
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Dr. Muhammad Allama Iqbal ,who was ardent follower of Rumi, perhaps the greatest Sufi poet of all time, openly criticized the self-proclaimed guides of the religion.

However, it is satirical that mullahs of the same breed quote verses of Iqbal to support their pose, yet his poetry is filled with open disapproval of them.

Anyway..
This is  a beautiful translation of Iqbal’s visions about traditional Mullaism..
Our destiny is to promote peace,love and respect in the hearts of everyone regardless of our Mulla’s orthodox visions…
One positive thing about Mullas is that atleast they are keeping our mosques alive 5 times a day…When most of us sleep, Mullas wake up…
I m not taking side with Mullas but infact i am clearing them on a positive note also besides there lot of orthodoxism and stubbornness which should be now ignored by igniting the light of education and awareness in even traditional Mullas…

Here he bashes out at Mullahs in his famous “The Mullah and the Paradise”

When in a vision I saw
A mullah ordered to paradise,
Unable to hold my tongue
I said something in this wise:

‘Pardon me, O Lord
For these bold words of mine,
But he will not be pleased
With houris and the wine

He loves to dispute and fight
And furiously wrangle,
But paradise is no place
For this kind of jangle

His task is to dis-unite
And leave people in the lurch,
But paradise has no temple
No mosque and no church

– translated by Naeem Siddiqui

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Womanizer

June 2nd, 2011, posted in LoVE, Scarface'S DIARY, Words
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What is a Womanizer ?

For certain men, the challenge of seducing different women is far more interesting than the actual pursuit of a long-term romantic relationship. Such a man is known as a womanizer, or sometimes a Lothario or Don Juan. A womanizer is often a serial dater who enjoys the thrill of the chase more than the end game of the dating ritual. Women who have encountered such men may have other names for them, such as players or walk-away Joes and one of mY FRiEND says PRiCK.(She loves to call them that)

A womanizer generally considers himself to be both a ladies’ man and a man’s man, maintaining an atmosphere of mystique and sophistication. He may surround himself with other male players or a support posse, but he clearly exudes a superior level of self-confidence bordering on vanity and self-absorption. A womanizer often wears the most stylish clothing, drives a sporty vehicle and flashes expensive jewelry, all in an effort to impress single women in trendy nightclubs or meat markets.

While all of these trappings may help a womanizer seduce a new target, he is generally following a script which has proven to be successful in the past. Conversations are usually surface-level and tailored to appeal to the woman’s personality and interests. A serial womanizer is keenly aware of how to hold a woman’s interest through conversation and other seductions, which may work in his favor if he wants the date to escalate physically. This is all part of the seduction game for a chronic womanizer, who may not even be truly interested in the woman as an individual.

A habitual womanizer may have serious issues with women in general, which can be the hidden motivation behind the seduction and ultimate rejection process. A womanizer is often a male chauvinist who views women as inferiors or manipulators who somehow deserve to be played by an aggressive male. A womanizer may be so concerned about rejection that he makes sure he remains in complete control of every relationship he enters, no matter how superficial or fleeting. Some relationship experts suggest that a habitual womanizer may be reenacting a painful break-up experience every time he picks up a new “conquest.

Other womanizers may actually love the company of women too much. They cannot commit to an exclusive or monogamous relationship because there are far too many other interesting types of women to pursue. They don’t necessarily want to hurt their current partners, but they also cannot resist the temptation to flirt with other women as assurance of their sexual or romantic prowess. A player or ladies’ man may be very good at hiding his true nature from a long-term romantic partner, but eventually most womanizers either get caught in an infidelity or mature to the point where a monogamous relationship holds more appeal than serial seductions.

This is all part of the seduction game for a chronic womanizer, who may not even be truly interested in the woman as an individual. A habitual womanizer may have serious issues with women in general, which can be the hidden motivation behind the seduction and ultimate rejection process.

Does he seem too good to be true ??
Maybe he is. Consider these signs that your new guy is a womanizer.

He promises too much, too soon.
You just met him, and he’s already talking about the future. The womanizer isn’t afraid to promise you the world because he won’t stick around long enough to make good on any of the promises. If he’s promising too much, too soon, be wary: He may just be telling you what you want to hear.

He never calls you by name.
He calls you sweetie, honey, babe and more. At first, it’s cute, but then you realize that he rarely or never calls you by your actual name. It’s by design: If the womanizer never says your name, then he doesn’t risk mixing it up with the name of another girl.

He doesn’t have a close female friend.
He has a lot of female acquaintances. He has more female Facebook friends than male. He gets a lot of text messages from girls… but he can’t name one close female friend. The womanizer has plenty of female acquaintances because he’s hoping to have sex with all of them.

He’s too complimentary:
We all love to hear compliments — but we generally know when compliments have motives behind them. If he’s overly complimentary, the womanizer is trying to get you into bed.

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Change

June 1st, 2011, posted in Ink On PAPER, PAKiSTAN, Scarface'S DIARY, Words
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Change – Reality or Fantasy or a Myth ??


“Naqar Khanay main Totti ki awaz” ever heard about that one???? can i give u an estimated figure of articles published at various publications/blogs/epapers, not to forget the no. of tv shows and programs all amplifying the voices, which a lot of our change promoters constantly harp about….

Take a look around, Pakistan and Pakistanis although still resilient to shy away from demanding change, have somehow delved into a state of acceptance. People talk about change, revolution, protests and demonstrations but everybody is busy trying save his own skin first.

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According to che guevara , change can either come from the very top or it may start toppling everything from the very bottom – which leads me to a conclusion that either we have to wait for the time when we hit the rock bottom and then we create enough inertia to start this change ripple or we rise to the very top and push the change inside, all the way to the very core. But as u will agree, reaching the top comes with its own share of moral corruption in an already rotten environment.

Bring a change in yourself in such a manner that no fingers are pointed towards you.

If in bringing about this change fingers are pointed towards you (meaning people are surprised by the sudden extreme change in you and talk openly about it) then it will be a trial (fitna) for you and chances are that you will return to your previous state.

Bring a change like a child develops gradually and becomes an adult.

And mY COUNtRY….
oUR COUNtRY… is now more than 60 yrs old now….

In conclusion, i remain skeptical that there would be any change happening any time soon, and i would want to quote Habib Jalib here,

“10 karor yeh gadhay, jin ka naam hai awaam,
Inki maut hogayee, Inki Kismetain zulmaton main kho gayee…”

( Note: dis is 1 of de g8t thngs written by a person i just came 2 knw…
I thaught u should read dis as well…dere r just little bit of additions of MiNE as well.. ; D  )

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SoRRY… :’ (

May 14th, 2011, posted in Ink On PAPER, Scarface'S DIARY, Words
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sorry

 

 

 

SoRRY…

de most shortest n important word..

i knw..
most of u say..
i cannt 4get n cannt 4gv…
i cann 4get but cannt 4gv…
i can 4gv but i cannt 4get…
i can move on…let it go…but cannt 4get…

so here is de thng…
de truth is..
i can 4get…
i can 4gv..
but whenever i think wht u did 2 mE..
makes mE LiTTLE more dEAD inside…

n each day…each hour…each minute…each second….
i m dying more n more…

 

sorry tears

 

 

 

it hurts..
it really hurts…
but u cannt remain hurt everytym..
al de tym…
full tym…

sun falls…
but it rises back again..

flowers die..
but other do bloOm…

after every strom..
dere is a rainbow….
its just sumtyms v can c it..
n sumtyms v cannt… ; ]

n if u hv made a mistake..
u can say sorry..
just dont b so much hard on uRSELf…

Sorry-animated

Saying SoRRY dozn’t mean dere isn’t guilt n 4gving dzn’t mean de PAiN is gone…
but it is de 1st step 2wards it… ; ]

Moreover..
i do hv realiz tht…
More men are SoRRY for speaking dan keeping silence…

so never ruin an APoLoGY with an excuse..
n always say SoRRY n mean it.. ; ]

n try 2 end de thng with a goOd n real SMiLE
or 2 cheer de people up..
u can use dis line..
I never apologize.
I’m sorry….but tht’s just the way I am… ;
]

sorry hands

n dnt ever 4get tht…
An apology is de superglue of LiFE….
It can repair just about almost ANYTHiNG…..

so say SoRRY 2 whom ever u hv 2 say… ; ]

i am sorry

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i wonder

May 14th, 2011, posted in Asghar, BoYs, LoVE
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I wonder whether u wonder abt me or not……
I wonder whether u love me or not……..!

I wonder how did i spend my days and night with-out u…….
I wonder how can i even think of leaving u……..!

I wonder tht whether there was a day or not……
In which i wonder abt u or not…….!

I wonder how can i ever forget ur art…..
the way u made hole in my heart……..!

i wonder u hve sieized me and not made me free……
but yet u still means so much to me…….!

i wonder will u know ur place in my heart…..
u r the one who can never be apart…..
the place u share…….
no one can compare…….!

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