Posts Tagged ‘love’
I Love My Cat
February 28th, 2012, posted in LoVE
Complicated Relationships
February 24th, 2012, posted in Ink On PAPER, LoVE, Scarface'S DIARY
I just can’t write until I am really inspired by something… And best part is that I can make mYSELf inspired by manythng…cause you can learn fron anythng…. ; }….I know my posts are not that awesome but still I want to feel something when I read them again in life…. 🙂
Anyway… This post is about how life surprised me at different stages….It is not something unique…I am sure all of you have been through same stages but with different experiences….Though  I have mostly n usually talked about love before because I have seen so many post with same meaning and different words in almost every place…weather its blog…faceboOk…twitter…whatever it is….
And on the other hand I was not even sure if I know what it really means…People name anything love like addiction…obsession…habit etc….I don’t know what it really is but one thing which I have learned so far is that it is selfless and its about trust…….You are willing to do anything….just to see smile on the face of the you love….It gives us confidence and power to stand up for ourselves….Sadly….we often take that for granted…e.g. a child loves his parents madly and parents impose their beliefs on him…just because they know that he will have to listen to them…..Similarly….sometimes children take their parents for granted….We do anything and accept our parents to forgive us because they love us…..And same thing goes on from friends to lover to wife and so on….
Where is selflessness then ??…Do we stop loving when we get sure that other person will never leave us now ?? Oh no they change their status to ITS COMPLICATED.. Is it really complicated ??… I guess its we who certainly change our definition of love with time….
Lately I am observing things more closely…and I have learnt that our surroundings has very deep affect on our actions…. We modify our lives with time on the basis of what we see others are doing….I mean our brought ups create some existing beliefs in our mind about things we yet have to experience….and thus we act…and expect others to act in same way….
I know its too philosophical…but if you guys think about it…for a while…then uwill realize that how right i am….Like If I see my elder acting with my parents in a particular way….I do same because for me that is how I am suppose to act…..And thus we ignore the other possible aspects of relationships….Yeah that’s one of the reason why we have problem adjusting with new people….  ; ]
So what to do if you are in that situation ???… Give yourself time…. and try to accept the differences….You don’t have to change yourself…but try to blend in….I guess time and acceptance will solve all your problems…..
So you can say that relationship is as complicated as you want it to be….Once you try to observe closely…and understand other person….you will notice how easy it is to get along with anyone…no matter how different you guys are….
So….GoOD luck with that thought… 😉
Sadness Is Contagious As Well
February 15th, 2012, posted in LoVE, MESSAGEs, Scarface'S DIARY
I never thought I would experience, what it feels like to get sick because you miss someone so much. I did not know what would it feel like, to see the person you love heart broken and sad. Someone that I love dearly is very sad. I can’t seem to shake this fact from my mind. Not only that, I can’t seem to help them. What am I supposed to do or say? There are so many questions in my mind. How do I approach them? What do I say to them? How do I help them feel better?
Is it my place to make them feel better? This is what goes through my mind all the time. Where do I stand? What is my position in their life? Do I have the privileges? I know they are sad and this is what is making me sad too. The whole day I was sick and in bed. Most of the time sleeping. The whole day I was thinking about them. Even thinking about them right now.
Sometimes you are happy and all of a sudden something happens, which forces you to forget everything else and just break down. No one human being on this planet can remain happy all the time. All you can do is try to be happy all the time, but even them there are instances in your life, where you have to forget everything and just admit it and face the fact, that you are sad.
Sometimes people are sad and they don’t even admit it to themselves or their close family/relatives/friends. They are in a state of denial and this is dangerous. To come out of this state of sadness, one should first of all admit it to themselves, that they are sad. Then only others and they themselves can help themselves overcome it.
I am sad right now and very sick. My head is spinning and I woke up after being knocked out for 9 hours straight. I am writing in this blog because I know I am sad. I want to vent about it. I was never good at expressing my thoughts and feelings to actual people in real life. I can write well and express well, only in the written words.
This blog entry is my way of facing the fact, that I am sad. Now I have to somehow get rid of this state of mine. Maybe talk to the person too, somehow? I can’t remain silent and sad all the time. I have to figure something out.
My love and care for them was like a newly formed flower bud…
It bloomed and blossomed in to a pretty flower. Colourful, strong and powerful….
I will try my best, never to let my love and care for them wither away, for whatever reason…
The Goodbye
February 14th, 2012, posted in Ink On PAPER, LoVE, POEtRY.., Scarface'S DIARY
Why do people, the people we love leave us and go away. Albeit they leave us to go to Allah or they leave us and never look behind to how they left us. Why do people forget the happy times and hurt you and leave you wondering about what you did wrong. Why this is happening to you. The people that leave you, they never look back at you and see what state you are in. How hurt you are. How miserable you are without them, how sad. There comes a time to say good-bye.
Letting go is one of the most powerful expressions of faith and greatest parting gifts you can offer you’re dying loved one. The repetition itself reminds your loved one of Allah’s steadfastness and the promise that Allah neither slumbers nor sleeps but keeps constant watch over us until the moment of death.
Which is harder, saying goodbye to a loved one as they leave this life or saying goodbye to a loved one that no longer wants to be in your life?
Sitting here thinking about you..
I here you call my name…
As I turn to see who’s calling me…
I see no one, only hear your voice…
I glance across the room..
To see if anyone else hears it too..
But no one seems to notice the look on my face…
I miss you so much, I keep telling you…
But you don’t seem to hear me..
Still you’re calling out my name…only louder..
As the tears rolled down my face..
I glance around the room..
And see you amongst my family.. and friends…
The look upon your face says you’re peaceful now….
I realized it was time to let you go…
Although I will always love and miss you…
I turn my head to see if anyone notices you….
Then I turn back, and you’re gone…
I hear you, so very gently say,”I love you”, “Good- Bye!”
“Bye”, I said . . .