I wish you to always have friends to share your laughter, your troubles and your victories. That you never have to wake up with the pain of losing people you love, losing something amazing you had to the cruelty of having to make a choice. I wish that you find the calm and hope and the ability to still love when everything seems cold and heartless….
I wish that you never have to walk into a room and be flooded with memories of the times that were but will never be again…
I wish you to always be the one controlling the situation and not the other way around….
I wish that you never have to come back from a beautiful day at the beach and get a phone call that your father fell of the roof and broke both his feet. I wish that if you do, it’s only that he broke his feet…
I wish that you never get your heart broken and watch a piece of it being taken away…
I wish that you never have to hear gunshots from your neighbours house which is being robbed…
I wish that you never have to walk behind your father with a knife to protect yourself while he makes sure that the robbers haven’t used your house to hide…
I wish that you never get a message from your brother telling you that the stray cat youve fallen in love with came under the car tyres…
I wish you didn’t have to watch a student in your class suffer because his parents refuse to admit theres something seriously unstable about him…
I wish you never have to watch someone being the only person in the class not get invited to a birthday party..
I wish that you never have to go through old pictures and feel the pain of loss…
I wish that you are never made to feel ashamed for what you love to do just because it’s not something as “awesome” as GuY…
I wish that you find something that you love to do…
I wish you the ability to know whose worth keeping…
I wish you never have to throw away dear old shoes because the soles were worn out….
I wish that you never give your parents a reason to feel ashamed to have you as a child….
I wish that you never have to wake up with a broken heart just because of your faith, your religion….
I wish that you never have to meet people who live such unbelievably immoral lives and know in your heart that this is exactly what you would do were you given the chance…
I wish that you have a car song with your friends…
I wish that you know the joy of dancing in a room full of mirrors and people watching and judging you and yet not have a care in the world…
I wish that you know the fun behind a spontaneous plan to a random amusement park for a friends birthday….
I wish that you find the place in which and the people with whom you will always belong…
I wish you the blessing of a strong, united family….
I wish you to have the wisdom to understand your roots and why you are the way you are…
I wish that you come from a family that got ostracized for standing up for the right thing and the pride that comes with it…
I wish that you meet someone who may be as far away as Boston but still finds the time to hear out your miseries even if they might be in law school and having a tough time themselves…
I wish that you find a person who introduces you to a whole new world filled with beautiful music and can capture life in a camera. And that you are their favourite subject…
I wish you to meet someone who tests the limits of your patience and with whom you are able to understand the concept of unconditional love…
I wish that you find two crazy, messed up friends whose lives are full of drama and with them you see what they mean when they say”cant live with, cant live without”…
I wish that you get a grandfather who shows his love to you by stuffing you with fruit and a grandmother who will wake up at two am to make you an omlette…
I wish that you have an aunt who makes the best tea in the world. Literally…
I wish that you have a younger brother who fascinates you with his maturity and his sense of responsibilty…
I wish that you have an even younger brother who has an amazing sense of humour, who thinks life should be spent playing video games full of blood and gore and yet will sit with you to paint flower stencils on envelopes…
I wish that you find a Sahar who has never, ever let you down. Who has watched you mess up, make horrible decisions, seen the worst side of you and whose love has NEVER wavered….
I wish you a love, hate relationship with your college…
I wish you randomness…
I wish you to have a father who thinks 11 pm is too late even when you are 23 and screams at you if you break the curfew by ten minutes. ..And then shows you the games on his ipod like a little boy….
I wish you a mother who has, after so long, has finally found the time to do something for herself…
I wish you tiny, little nieces and nephews with curly hair and the inability to pronounce ch…
I wish you all good things and that no matter what happens, to believe in yourself and move on…

Posts Tagged ‘wish’
Aadmi Aadmi Se Milta Hai
June 20th, 2011, posted in POEtRY..*Aadmi Aadmi Se Milta Hai*
Aadmi aadmi se mil taa hai…
Dil magar kam kisii se mil taa hai..
(A person meets another person but the heart does not find everyone pleasant. )
Bhool jaataa houN maiN sitam us k..
Woh kuch is saadgi se mil taa hai..
(I forget his injustice [to me][when] he meets with such simplicity )
Aaj kya baat hai ke phoOluoN ka..
Rang terii haNsii se mil taa hai..
(What is it today that the flowers’ color matches your laughter?)
Mil kar bhi jo kabhii nahi mil taa…
TuoT kar dil usii se mil taa hai..
(One who is difficult to reach even after trying [my] heart passionately loves her only)
Kaar-o-baar-e-jahaaN saNvarate haiN..
Hosh jab be-Khudii se mil taa hai..
(Worldly matters are resolved when consciousness meets unconsciousness)
Lyrics: Jigar Moradabadi
Womanizer
June 2nd, 2011, posted in LoVE, Scarface'S DIARY, WordsWhat is a Womanizer ?
For certain men, the challenge of seducing different women is far more interesting than the actual pursuit of a long-term romantic relationship. Such a man is known as a womanizer, or sometimes a Lothario or Don Juan. A womanizer is often a serial dater who enjoys the thrill of the chase more than the end game of the dating ritual. Women who have encountered such men may have other names for them, such as players or walk-away Joes and one of mY FRiEND says PRiCK.(She loves to call them that)
A womanizer generally considers himself to be both a ladies’ man and a man’s man, maintaining an atmosphere of mystique and sophistication. He may surround himself with other male players or a support posse, but he clearly exudes a superior level of self-confidence bordering on vanity and self-absorption. A womanizer often wears the most stylish clothing, drives a sporty vehicle and flashes expensive jewelry, all in an effort to impress single women in trendy nightclubs or meat markets.
While all of these trappings may help a womanizer seduce a new target, he is generally following a script which has proven to be successful in the past. Conversations are usually surface-level and tailored to appeal to the woman’s personality and interests. A serial womanizer is keenly aware of how to hold a woman’s interest through conversation and other seductions, which may work in his favor if he wants the date to escalate physically. This is all part of the seduction game for a chronic womanizer, who may not even be truly interested in the woman as an individual.
A habitual womanizer may have serious issues with women in general, which can be the hidden motivation behind the seduction and ultimate rejection process. A womanizer is often a male chauvinist who views women as inferiors or manipulators who somehow deserve to be played by an aggressive male. A womanizer may be so concerned about rejection that he makes sure he remains in complete control of every relationship he enters, no matter how superficial or fleeting. Some relationship experts suggest that a habitual womanizer may be reenacting a painful break-up experience every time he picks up a new “conquest.”
Other womanizers may actually love the company of women too much. They cannot commit to an exclusive or monogamous relationship because there are far too many other interesting types of women to pursue. They don’t necessarily want to hurt their current partners, but they also cannot resist the temptation to flirt with other women as assurance of their sexual or romantic prowess. A player or ladies’ man may be very good at hiding his true nature from a long-term romantic partner, but eventually most womanizers either get caught in an infidelity or mature to the point where a monogamous relationship holds more appeal than serial seductions.
This is all part of the seduction game for a chronic womanizer, who may not even be truly interested in the woman as an individual. A habitual womanizer may have serious issues with women in general, which can be the hidden motivation behind the seduction and ultimate rejection process.
Does he seem too good to be true ??
Maybe he is. Consider these signs that your new guy is a womanizer.
He promises too much, too soon.
You just met him, and he’s already talking about the future. The womanizer isn’t afraid to promise you the world because he won’t stick around long enough to make good on any of the promises. If he’s promising too much, too soon, be wary: He may just be telling you what you want to hear.
He never calls you by name.
He calls you sweetie, honey, babe and more. At first, it’s cute, but then you realize that he rarely or never calls you by your actual name. It’s by design: If the womanizer never says your name, then he doesn’t risk mixing it up with the name of another girl.
He doesn’t have a close female friend.
He has a lot of female acquaintances. He has more female Facebook friends than male. He gets a lot of text messages from girls… but he can’t name one close female friend. The womanizer has plenty of female acquaintances because he’s hoping to have sex with all of them.
He’s too complimentary:
We all love to hear compliments — but we generally know when compliments have motives behind them. If he’s overly complimentary, the womanizer is trying to get you into bed.